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01.27.07

Sundance: "Never Forever."

"I want the people I love to stop hurting." We're not entirely sold on Vera Farmiga. She does look remarkable, like some sad-eyed Slavic Madonna, but watching her on screen, we're ever conscious of how hard she's acting — it often leaves us at a remove. "Never Forever," the second feature from director Gina Kim, rests entirely on Farmiga's charms, which may explain our ambivalence to the film. A Korea-US co-production, "Never Forever" is a melodrama with more in common with Korean mainstream cinema than American arthouse fare. Farmiga stars as Sophie Lee, a Caucasian woman trying to be the perfect Korean-American wife to her husband, Andrew (David McInnis). Demure, loving and in every way accommodating, she's even adopted the strict Christianity practiced by Andrew's family...but she's yet to conceive a child, a fact that's caused Andrew to fall into depression. Out of desperation, she strikes up a bargain with a stranger she spies at the fertility clinic, Jihah (Ha Jung-woo), a Korean man who turns out to be an illegal immigrant barely managing to scrape together a living. (He does live in an awfully cute little Chinatown studio, though.) She pays him for sex; if she conceives, she gives him $30,000 and never sees him again. Unless, of course, they fall in love — but they would never do that, would they?

Of course they would.

The film is problematic less because of the soapy aspects of the story (though Andrew's reaction when he inevitably discovers the affair is right out of a bodice-ripper) and more because the character of Sophie is a construct that never comes together. Dressed in ridiculous ruffled and beribboned outfits, her blond hair curled in ringlets, she looks like a china doll, but all of the anvil-subtle signifiers in the world don't explain how her character ended up helplessly submerging herself in an impossible role. For a film that goes into scarcely tread territory in terms of race, "Never Forever" remains broad in its readings — Sophie is a trophy, a blond-haired, blue-eyed piece of the American Dream, but whose American Dream, exactly? If Andrew is such a good Korean son, such a pillar of the community, then how'd he end up marrying a white chick? And who the hell is Sophie supposed to be, behind that blank, wide-eyed gaze? Without any apparent interpersonal relationships of her own, having previously lived only to please her husband, she's a figure out of a Douglas Sirk film, albeit one with occasional subtitles and more sex.

+ "Never Forever" (Sundance)

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An Asian American man's American dream is to be the good son, successful, with good to the community and having the white girl who has blond hair and blue eyes (lucky dipping to both American dreams)! Did you not realize that there are some Asians Americans out there who also wants their partner that has blond hair and blue eyes?? Sophie's Blond hair curled in ringlets aka china doll image is what asians(mostly) have of an impression of a white female.

Do some research please before deciding to make that conclusion that you wrote.

Posted by: Lisa | Jun 8, 2007 1:14:47 PM

Given that I'm half Asian and half white myself, I would be the last to presume that such a pairing is impossible. Ms. Kim's film does, however, simply brush over what would have been some serious and openly discussed conflicts regarding the lead couple's relationship; this, combined with the otherwise scant and standard details to which Andrew is limited, made me feel that the character was implausible, neither a viable narrative stereotype nor a fully fleshed-out person.

As for "research," I grew up in a heavily Asian American community, and the film fails to match anything I've know from personal experience, which is all I can speak to. You seem secure in having found the authoritative source on what all Asians and Asian Americans think, so I hope that you will please share.

Posted by: Alison | Jun 8, 2007 1:41:39 PM

About 30% of 2nd generation Korean males marry white women. I personally don't know any Korean women married to to white men, but I know at least 5 Korean guys married to white girls. And yeah, they all do happen to be lawyers, medical doctors, MBA, etc...

Gina Kim is a native Korean and a professor at Harvard. I take her perspective is a smart one.

Posted by: Raymond | Jul 11, 2007 8:18:12 PM

It is not and never was my intention to argue anything about the likelihood of Korean-American/Caucasian intermarriage -- which would make for a hell of a film review. All I'm saying is that I didn't find the representation of the marriage in the film believable, largely due to the characterizations of certain characters, particularly that of David McInnis, which rest on broad, stereotypical strokes. Fine; this is a melodrama. Gina Kim is, as you've written, a native Korean, and this film felt, to me, very much like the product of that rather than of someone who grew up in the Korean American community, and in general as something more intended for a Korean audience than an American one.

Posted by: Alison | Jul 12, 2007 7:42:27 AM

ahh okay. I get what you mean.

I understand that 80-90% of the viewers of this movie was women in Korea. Do you think that this movie will also cross over into the "girls night out" type of movie in America?

Personally I rather it be more native Korean perspective than KA perspective. I've dated a white girl and used to take her clubbing in Ktown. I can't really offer any perspective other than the ooh's and aah's I got from girls and guys alike in ktown (LOL), and things like that. Either way, I think for women to open up to Korean culture, I think it will work out better from a native Korean perspective, rather than a Korean American one. Altho Korean American guys will probably end up being the beneficiaries of that.

Posted by: Raymond | Jul 14, 2007 2:38:29 AM

Also, I think KA perspective will get too filtered before being presented to the mainstream (because of Hollywood filtering mechanisms) for it to be meaningful. A Korean perspective made a movie like this possible, and is different enough to cut thru all of the Hollywood barriers. I know what I just said may not make sense, but I really believe that Korean and KA perspectives in this case don't have much room to clash, but should move forward together.

Posted by: Raymond | Jul 14, 2007 2:43:43 AM

I'm white and a redhead who has a Japanese b/f. I only go with Asians but not Koreans! I hate garlic! Blonds don't have all the fun.

Posted by: Lorraine | Aug 2, 2007 7:46:28 AM

My wife and I are amateur film critics, always with one eye open for mainstream or art-house films involving interracial relationships. I am a 1st generation Chinese-American. My wife is English-French, and her roots go back to the late-eighteenth century. We have 2 kids, both biracial. Interracial dynamics are very much a part of our lives.

Posted by: David, Canton, Michigan | Sep 15, 2007 11:03:58 AM

this movie has at least several implausible situations. how can andrew, an apparently intelligent character, be expected to believe that sophie has become pregnant by him when, after his suicide attempt, we never see him and sophie having sex? and why wouldn't sophie, whose intelligence is not so apparent at all ("can you teach me how to pray?"), think about, and discuss with andrew or even a close friend, artificial insemination before embarking on such risky behavior with a stranger? o.k. maybe she's desperate and not thinking clearly. maybe it's karma. money seems to be no problem. $300 for each pull of the slot-machine handle -- and $30,000 for a jackpot. where does this money come from? one subtext is that white woman gets her cake and eats it, too. how's that for asian exploitation?! and the kid at the end of the movie doesn't even have the appearance of mixed asian ancestry. well, it's only a movie . . .

Posted by: lawrence | Oct 28, 2007 5:36:02 PM

no koreans? garlic? there's no way you're that stupid.

Posted by: 333 | Nov 15, 2007 4:00:13 PM

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